HAPPINESss.....!

HAPPINESS though a monosyllabic word is actually a word which needs to have a profound thought.

For many it’s a smile , a laugh or many laughs.

But i actually feel it is  ,

Ambiguous

Arguable

Chancy

Confusing

Conjectural

Cryptic

Enigmatic

Nebulous

Dubious

Indefinite

Puzzling

Erratic

Unreliable

Insecure

What is happiness Exactly....?

-Long ride at 100kmph....on a sea cost , hugging your guy from back whispering in his ear...?

-With friends in a big dark room, with randomising lights , music at it’s TOP, hitting the dance floor and having a couple of shots every now and then.

-looking into the eyes of your gal/guy and spending a hell lot of time as surfing facebook ( :P )

-Earning  a lot pots of money...?

- lots of name and fame...?

There are many individual majorities for the above elements, picking each one of them and they do be on  cloud 9.

BUT  IS THAT ALLL HAPPINESSss.......?

Is that why we all there on the planet Earth....?

Is that Why we have words like :

Unique

Rare

Special

Notable

Peculiar

Different

Idiosyncratic

Interesting.....?

Though hw verbose i be , the main motto is just to stree upon “Quality of happiness “

We do say that i had a great time with friends.

We do say that ,”that day was the most memorable day of my life ( very often :P )”

Have you ever noticed the amount of happiness you gain or feel when you

-          Help some one in trouble

-          Help an elderly woman in carrying her luggage .?

-          Buying some fud and giving it to a beggar whom you pass by daily.

-          Giving clothes (let them new or old ) to some poor (pure ) needy children of the streets.

-          Helping mom in cooking or house keeping nt nly when she is ill but also  nrmlly by self.

-          Curving up a smile in face of a crying pal.

Just try various kinds of happiness .........

Dnt let happiness be a pre-defined emotion which has to do with some shopping malls ,pubs or some gaming zone mania.

Bernard Shaw says ,” Knowledge breeds Taste ......Taste kills Pleasure”

When we knew many things ...then the petty issues do nt matter us .

Few small things we cannot even notice to relish.

A baby’s smile ,Wet soil fragrance , coffee in Rain , Watching sunset ,kissing in moonlight (both ourselves while d same , shadows).

Well, here i am not defining Happiness for You, but just telling few so you can try .......

Just give a try..........

Let it b a F**Kng  try.....but    jus   give a god damn trYyy...!

-          Read some classic literature sipping hot steamy black coffee.....

-          Reading some Poetry or some Philosophical non-fiction munching some Belgian Dark chocolate.

-          Watching the sky of stars ,sleeping on the lap of your guy/gal  playing with her/his hair.......

-          All alone in a room with some natural aroma and listening to some

Mozart’s symphony 40 , eine kleine nachtmusik or Beethoven’s symphony 9 .

Or

Pandit Jasraj’s Kajra re naina

Or

M.S.Subbalakshmi’s Raga alapanas....

-For one day don’t  EAT anything ....n  stay empty .....n   nw think about few general social problems which you used to ignore in your so-called day to day rush. The bile juice of ur tummy gets caustic melting your heart fuelling your sensibility levels.

- Try being cultural or ethnic for a day of your week  ( eat quite Indian food.....wear khadi....talk just in your mother tongue (mstly) ....try doing some pottery,carpentry,painting or atloeast  some writing by thinking.

I do agree that Happiness is SATISFACTION.

For example,

“X” is reading Marx’s Das Capital .....sipping hot Green tea.....lying in a wooden Swing...wearing a fad of fab india.

“Y” gaming with the sound effects on their peak.....playing Hot Pursuit(NFS).....swigging Budweiser...with a sheesha to side ....!

“Z” always lov to sleep,so as usual lying on his bed though it is 12.30 in the so-called morning...!

In any of the above , yes my clients do hav and relish happiness......

Every one’s happiness is diff and they needn’t be compared .....

But still.......try something in everything........!

Stick to happiness....nt to the modes of it.

Y did Gauthama Buddha left all his luxuries and went on to preach buddism begging home to home..?

Y cant Mr.Gandhi hav fun hanging out with hot London chicks.......rather coming all the way back to India to take part in Freedom Movement...?

Finally few finishing CRAP......

When you are HungrY..........Everything seems to be Yummy & Tasty...!

When you knw what exactly is to be in DARK......then only you come to knw d imp. Of LIGHT..!

When you know the real Suffering .....You can define real HAPPINESS...!

-RaM.

                                   

                                   ......THANK YOU....