Thursday, December 23, 2010

     HAPPINESS--eXPECTATIONss

                      Happiness which is a basic desideratum or a luxury or some hidden treasure of the human soul which either has to be discovered inwardly or invented from outside ……..is a key cardinal point to which v pivot from pole to pole…!  

Happiness is found in various fields in various forms following no norms….! It is a feeling which is deprived of any pre-defined factors and is highly independent in nature varying from each individual….!
Now let’s peep into happiness and its causes or demands  or some requirements……..etc. !

FOOD
Generally in case of food which is Delicious brings the happiness…
Food which is healthy in nutrients sustains the happiness…..if u can realise and value ur health….!
Wen ur are having ur fud u expect it to be yummy …..and when it hit your mark there it fills up ur mouth wid gulps and ur heart with joy…..!
DRESS-in case of the costumes if someone lauds dat u hav gt a great taste and   nice pair ur put on wid….it curves up a smile on  ur beautiful face to make it much pretty…….blushing..!
HOUSE   To people it doesn’t matter how u live in your home …but how ur home lives to looks….!
How its built, painted, furniture and decoration…………etc.
   People are aesthetic at all these sections which sub-consciously triggers the money and the status quo of the person. People carve on an Italian marble as  “Happy Home” where it lacks inside and just grandstands  its lavishness….!
It’s like having a great frame with a non-picturesque pic….!

In all these cases we knoe what is happiness and we framed few bounds and few rules and craving for it………..Happiness is a bona fide  feeling which comes to us and not dat we go to it.  It’s a expected feeling which comes unexpected to soothe the soul….!



LOVE
Love again a nobel and majestic expected feeling which comes unexpectedly as same way as the happiness…!
We can call them as pals or rivals.....depending upon the levels of Expectations……!
In case of love,
             We will be  more happy and joyous before the proposal…….than later .I am talking about a Love (may not be yours....jus to appease u now) which we used to find in our day to day lives as common as a cellular phone or some politician scandal…!

One thing we have to remember that when we expect something it should have a positive result and in case when it fails it yields sorrows…which culls happiness and love together with a single shot..!
Love is not a game of winning and losing…..!
     


         “We knoe that the people actually feel great to boast that they r the ones who got proposed first which satisfies their ego and  again incase of breaking up also they stress upon that they left  the otherone  which again satisfies the E`go’.”


If it’s a love den none needs to Propose and its known……..
If it’s a love then ppl brkup together to be independent nd not like one leaving the other…!

People generally brk up in process of understanding the person or not reaching their own expectation levels…!

          Love and Happiness are no longer been as Feelings or as emotions but have become as a standardised state of  zones where we comfort ourselves or live in illusions and a defined state …..!

 One thing is of sure …..either have LOVE or HAPPINESS……but wen u want a combo pack then leave ur SELF( no egos no attitudes)….!