HAPPINESS--eXPECTATIONss

                      Happiness which is a basic desideratum or a luxury or some hidden treasure of the human soul which either has to be discovered inwardly or invented from outside ……..is a key cardinal point to which v pivot from pole to pole…!  

Happiness is found in various fields in various forms following no norms….! It is a feeling which is deprived of any pre-defined factors and is highly independent in nature varying from each individual….!

Now let’s peep into happiness and its causes or demands  or some requirements……..etc. !

FOOD

Generally in case of food which is Delicious brings the happiness…

Food which is healthy in nutrients sustains the happiness…..if u can realise and value ur health….!

Wen ur are having ur fud u expect it to be yummy …..and when it hit your mark there it fills up ur mouth wid gulps and ur heart with joy…..!

DRESS-in case of the costumes if someone lauds dat u hav gt a great taste and   nice pair ur put on wid….it curves up a smile on  ur beautiful face to make it much pretty…….blushing..!

HOUSE   To people it doesn’t matter how u live in your home …but how ur home lives to looks….!

How its built, painted, furniture and decoration…………etc.

   People are aesthetic at all these sections which sub-consciously triggers the money and the status quo of the person. People carve on an Italian marble as  “Happy Home” where it lacks inside and just grandstands  its lavishness….!

It’s like having a great frame with a non-picturesque pic….!

In all these cases we knoe what is happiness and we framed few bounds and few rules and craving for it………..Happiness is a bona fide  feeling which comes to us and not dat we go to it.  It’s a expected feeling which comes unexpected to soothe the soul….!

LOVE

Love again a nobel and majestic expected feeling which comes unexpectedly as same way as the happiness…!

We can call them as pals or rivals.....depending upon the levels of Expectations……!

In case of love,

             We will be  more happy and joyous before the proposal…….than later .I am talking about a Love (may not be yours....jus to appease u now) which we used to find in our day to day lives as common as a cellular phone or some politician scandal…!

One thing we have to remember that when we expect something it should have a positive result and in case when it fails it yields sorrows…which culls happiness and love together with a single shot..!

Love is not a game of winning and losing…..!

     


         “We knoe that the people actually feel great to boast that they r the ones who got proposed first which satisfies their ego and  again incase of breaking up also they stress upon that they left  the otherone  which again satisfies the E`go’.”

If it’s a love den none needs to Propose and its known……..

If it’s a love then ppl brkup together to be independent nd not like one leaving the other…!

People generally brk up in process of understanding the person or not reaching their own expectation levels…!

          Love and Happiness are no longer been as Feelings or as emotions but have become as a standardised state of  zones where we comfort ourselves or live in illusions and a defined state …..!

 One thing is of sure …..either have LOVE or HAPPINESS……but wen u want a combo pack then leave ur SELF( no egos no attitudes)….!

  

 NOTES TO MYSELF........

Wen my mind thinks ....my body can just penn it.......as Gandhi ( let it b Nyone....as gandhi is popular his wrd counts.).said..."U BE D CHANGE WHAT U EXPECT THE WORLD TO BE "... i havnt quoted it xactly...but ......hope u gt conveyd..or b annoyed fr readn dis ...still i keep goinn.....! 

so i here in d process of  Changing...

or  

shwng u by writing d Change...

or 

born diffrnt ...nd revealn dat nw..

or 

gt irritated being d Change nd wanna u to JOIN ME.......! 

here  r  few wrds which chained up to mean smthng....!

i dnt knoe which particular LINE is d difference of  INTELLIGENCE & INSANITY.........so  hav been crossing ...passing nd surpassing it many times......presentng u some crap in these few lines.....which get updated.....wen  eva i get pissed off.....or......cheered up..! 

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"U NEED NOT PROVE SOMEONE IS BAD........INORDER TO PROVE DAT U R GUD.......!!! 

if u r gud ,den  y u go comparinG....??? "

"Y to think Positive..(so called positive as in self-help buks)..?...??
accept that things also be Negative.....& act accordnG 2 dem.....!

Dnt comfort urself by illusions.....!! "

"Fud which is tasty is nt gud for health.........

Beauty which is gud to luk nt gud at heart.....

attraction is always.......addictive.....though v knoe.....v dnt lyk 2 accept it..."

"Every nrml persn has gt a Spl. TALENT.....,
but if it is sooo spl...
hOw ..v nrml ppL gonna Recognise or Realise.."THEM"....?
so our gr8ness Lies in hands or minds of Othersss...!!....? ? "




" For evry one thrs is dis someone Spl...
born..&..Waitng......somewhr....
wid someother one......:P :P.......!!! "



 "When i hv gt wrk to do i feel Bored.....! ,
Bt wen thrs nthn 2 do .,..den no Boredom ,nd me with full freedm to do nythn..! "



" LOVE is a Chweet gamE.....
hw eva gud it is.....still atlass...
the GAME IS (or has to be ) OVER*....! "



"Beee Iconoclastic Ovr Archaic Compttv 'Lie' F....! "



"HAPPINESS :
Helpng others .....?
orr
What evryone thinks of U, wen u help others.....? "



"Dnt pity ppl who r physicaly disabled, crippld..!
Do fr who r psychologicaly as dats highly contagious..! "



"Woo"men r gud @ BEAUTY
CHARACTR &
BRAINS
but d conundrum is nly one of dem is PRESENT..!
(Discrete function )



"Evry one wants to ~ "love" ; "to be loved"
but
"cannot LUV d way "LUV" is."
V keep gng expectng D best .....either in 'person' or for 'person'.......! "



"Ur namE as hymn
Chime as Rhyme
in day and Dream
Time to Time
Ur namE as Hymn....! "






 "R v celebrating Independence........?
oR..
Independence Day....?
Independently...or fr others dependency....?....!!! "



 "Ppl inquisitively indulge in gossips abt others...

but neva in helpn ......lots n loads of crap freaks ,
wid creeping minds peeping ~IN & INN.......y....? "



"LUv gives Fun...leaves wid Pain....wen u Realise dis Sin....by den tym in Vain....ITS ALL INSANE...! "



 "Love is always associated wid a fascicle of .....Expectations~Egoes~Suspicions...& Pain..........so...its all in d GAME...!!! "




 "A single Success always yields a pack of liars, haters , hypocrites......!!
and
whr failures yields few huGs nd few pats....!!! "




"In nythng if u gotta hav trust; means thr r also chances of suspicion....in dat...!!
so y shud one forcely,intentionally Trust smone.......if its nt being ...involuntary.... ?? "



"The mOre u quArell....The mOre u bOthEr.....The mOre..u LOve...
keep YellinG....@ evry Darllng..!"

"PRINCE=PAUPER"....?...!!

                "PRINCE=PAUPER"....?...!! 


      In  the amid of the last nyt’s tranquillity as am not getting sleep I penned (as I can’t do anything other than) this piece of crap (so-called). I said crap as these pieces of ink are of no man’s business, where people consider these as writing for the sake of writing. Here this issue is just about the extremes of Indian people. Actually my childhood education taught me that between two extremes there will be many differences and nothing much in common. Being iconoclastic with academics, I love to share these similarities of the ostentatious high class teen and poor indigent species.

Starting with everyone’s first love …. “FOOD”;

PAUPERIZED : As per WHO Indian poor are having a very low nutrient food. The malnutrition is all because of not having proper money to buy food and the knowledge. Right from the lactation stage of the child, this nutrient imbalance is making them vulnerable to all deficiencies and diseases. Inability and Ignorance are striking balance in forestalling their wealthy Healthy.

URBANE : Here money is not a problem……but it has become a problem. More and more and money made the people to try more varieties finally ending up at fast foods, fried junks, pizzas and hot dogs. These packs of high calorie diet without any sufficient nutrients is making them to be anaemic, obese and many more hormonal problems in adolescence itself.

                                                         CLOTHES





PAUPERIZED : Thank GOD ( if u r a theist) , that there are at least few Rags left on this earth for the poor to cover up their body. Dressed up in a torn costume with all failed trials of covering up their skin.

URBANE: Common ppl …who doesn’t knoe the latest trend…? ; torn jeans …!
The more less u dressed the more u are cultured is the present scenario. The trendy girls are are making the skin as prey where commensurately becoming prey for the crimes on them. In some cases the price tags are being bigger than the costumes.

                                                            SEX
PAUPERIZED : Child marriages ,ignorance ,child molestations and brothel trading and normal unhygienic conditions of their lives making them a prey to HIV,STD’s(sexually transmitted diseases ) and Cervical cancers in case of women. Lots of counselling and enlightenment is required in case of them .

URBANE: Here also lots counselling is required because of multiple relationships people taking part in. In the so called pub and party culture drugs and drinks are trapping gals ( don’t simply pity them nw ) having pre martial sex. Many of these molestations doesn’t come into light keeping in view of the future of the person. So even here people are being in the zone of the STD’s (making 19 -25 is the highest percentage of infecting stage of HIV ).
                                                       SLEEP:

Jumping straight from non –sleeping zone to dormant stage .

PAUPERIZED : the day to day problems ,fighting for occluding the burdens . the daily price hikes ,social increase of standards and troublesome live hood is making them not to have a proper sleep.
“HERE PROBLEMS ARE DEPRIVING SLEEP.”

URBANE: “HERE THE SLEEP ITSELF IS A PROBLEM.”
The lifestyles ,irregular eating habits and the stress out life is making people to be a prey.


One thing we should know that being cultured is different from being educated. The poor has the habit of sharing more, more sensible , more cultured .this issue is not a classy bashing of the high class but just giving few instances and cases.

It’s all up to you decide whether to accept or contradict……!

E D U C A T I O N..!

‘Education’ ur in our ‘Tradition’

U show the ‘Direction’

As a child frm ‘Formation’

I found ‘Sensation’

In ‘Addition’ to my

Mom’s ‘Emotion’

& class ‘Promotion’

Cuz OF my skul’s ‘Realisation’

For my ‘Solution’

Of their ‘Examination’

I completed my ‘Matriculation’

Now I have got a ‘Confusion’

As I entered ‘Graduation’

Dun want to get into

ny ‘Attraction’

In selection of my ‘Location’

I want necessary ‘Information’

For conformation of my ‘Illusion’

& getting into new ‘Dimension’

So as to relieve my ‘Tension’

Plz give me a ‘Suggestion’

4 da sake of ‘Upgradation’

Of my ‘Education’

 ............................

Thanks for ur ‘Attention’

Of my present ‘Creation’

Meet u in da next  ‘Edition’

Of my ‘Innovation’……!!!

(written wen i am done wid ma +2 .....nd in process of gettng into U.G..! )

మగువ-తగువ...?

మగువ ముట్టనని
మాటలాడనని
తగువ పెట్టుకొని మరీ
తీర్మానించుకున్న
నా ఆశ నా శ్వాస లో  ఏకమైన
స్వతహాగా సంక్రమించిన గ్రీష్మం
ఏకీభవించక,
మనో శారీరక సంఘర్షనలలో  
మునిగి
ఎటూ తేలక ఏది తెమలని
ఈ
తికమక తొలగక
అటు సరైనది తగలక
తగిలనది  ఇక వదలక   
ఇకనైనా నా చదువు సాగేనా

ఓ మల్లికా.......?  ? ? .....!!!

IT’S A WONDERFUL LIFE.

MOVIE:  IT’S AWONDERFUL LIFE.
CAST : JAMES STEWART,DONA REED.
DIRECTOR: FRANK CAPRA
“It's a Wonderful Life”, raises and answers a question that all of us think of at some point of time: "What would this world be like if I had never been born?".
               This socio-fantasy flick has got few of the finest romantic conversations ever , filming hilarious intellectual romance between James Stewart and Dona Reed. “It's a Wonderful Life” tales the story of George Bailey (James Stewart), as a child, was selfless, risking his own life (and losing his hearing in one ear) to save his brother from drowning. As an adult, many of his personal pleasures and also he gave up his dreams of traveling the world and going to college ,to stay home and manage the Bailey Building and Loan Society after his father passed away. Throughout his life, George lived by a creed that always placed human need above riches, and, as a result, his only wealth was in his friends and family. He is always rational and humane in his approaches to people and very considerate in his banking business in spite of his tough, rancorous rival Potter.

Potter (movie giant Lionel Barrymore ), willing to do anything to get his hands on bailey’s property as it’s the only one which he doesn’t own in that city ,so he cheats, bribes and steals putting no end to the tussles , mutilates George. The troubles start affecting George here , though they have been there earlier. He tries a lot to come out the bankruptcy and from a case which was filed against him. So at dis point of time he gets vexed up and cannot grapple up with any more pickles .

On a fine day under the surveillance of the Almighty he decides to commit suicide. Here enters the angel which makes George to realise how life would have been there in the city and the people on absence of him. He finds the total city in the hands of Potter, with all commercial strands like casinos, Epitaph of his brother, his childhood boss in a desolate condition and few more sites that makes him to realize and as he returns home, he finds all his family and friends worried about him. He gets his troubles cleared up not by the omnipotent but by his family and friends.
It’s a favourite for both Capra and James Stewart, but it was a miscarry at the box office. It achieved its deserved recognition, albeit after four decades after it was first released.

PATHER PANCHALI

                                                           

      Sorry guys ! as I am here interrupting your 21^st century with a antediluvian  flick of 1950’s which is  the braggadocio of  Indian cinema ;Pather Panchali (song of the little Road ),based on a Bengali literary classic by Bhibhuthi bhushan  Bandopadhyay ,directed by the man of the indian cinema Satyajit Ray,  is a luminous revelation of Indian life in a language that all the world can understand , a language of eyes, a language of emotions which makes  you to  envisage that its not only reel but also real.

   Ray influenced by the Italian neo-realism from the films of Jean Renoir and vittorio de sica, made this masterpiece grappling with many troubles. To be frank there is no story in it; the ordinary life of almost every poor family (comprising 80% of Indian population at that time) .

The husband who is unruffled , not worrying but bothering about the family, where at times we feel that he is inefficient and whose thoughts as daydreams. The housewife who worries about the pay he gets, the family needs and about kids and their upbringing. Now introducing one of  best characters of film ,who makes us mesmerised and spellbound by her splendid role-the Aunt.

The story is all about their livelihood , how they survive, how they pay life at cost of their deaths. One when the Old woman dies and later being their daughter Durga .  Undergoing all this Emotional and Economical problems  they still sustain hope on their lives. This tragedy never makes you feel bad but makes you more sensible and realistic, with a haunting  rhapsodic soundtrack by the music maestro Pandit Ravi Shankar .

In making of the film Ray brooked many difficulties almost at par with the characters of his film . He got no financial support, kept waiting for the government loan which finally approved from the government of Bengal. At a stage he sold his wife’s  jewellery and made the film using the leftover parts of the reel and clubbing up them again. This film showed the world the standard of the Indian cinema making it to won a ‘best human document ‘ at the Cannes film festival (1956).

Later he came up with the Aparajitho and Apu Sansar which are the part of the Apu Triology. After them he never looked back.  Some more best films of Ray are Charulatha , Aganthak , Teen kanya ,Nagarik and etc. The Japanese god of cinema Akira kurasawa   said “Not to have seen the cinema of Ray means existing in the world without seeing the Sun or the Moon”.

This is not a review. I just came up with a will to introduce this to people who haven’t yet seen a Ray’s film. Hope you just give a try.

  

LIVE LOVE LAUGH ...................!!!!

Hi   ppl..........in this post I have got few doubts which i feel lyk posting........Its better I coin them as ma thoughts...which always keep sagging me.

? Every one of us have many or few expectations on or loved ones and sometimes...to be frank many times we get turned off..! ; Is it because we are quixotic with our expectations (or) we are more selfish (or) our gal/guy is not that true in the relationship (or) is that we are not quite understanding and unable to put ourself in their shoe........? ..?

! So  its better we don’t have any expectations ....and accept them as the way they are...,and say to yourself that every is nt as romantic as “ME”..!

?? How many of us would prefer to gift someting to mother than their gal/guy...?.....; and   When mom scolds on us we shout bak yelling lyk anything ...but  when our gal or guy shouts on us we try to get d world at their feet.....?...? why dis.....?

!! Its all Fear ; the fear of replaceability. No one can take off our son-mother relationship....no substitution for d position of son....,but in the place of gal/guy its nt lyk dat  so.....we keep all d coolness with us and  be very patient .

???We suspect and doubt our beloved  at times in few situations.............is dat our suspicious mean character or our possessive  and loving nature....?

!!! well......it happens that sometimes we do feel in such way....at some part of the relationship in these days (kaliyugaa...ryt..! ). Its obvious that as we are damn possessive  and caring we do suspect but that doesn’t hav anything to do with trusting of each other........as simple as that. We do hav to give some space to our beau.

???? LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT..................lol.....?

!!!! I donno exactly whether this had been phrased by Shakespeare, Maugham or Keats  

or because these 3 hrs short movies....as the hero gotta luv nd marry her in a short span . I agree with the phrase that Lust at first sight, as wen we first look at the opposite gendre Oxytoxin is the hormone which produces inside us,this makes us to get attracted to them by the physical parameters.  

???? How come everyone has their Romeo/Juliet and are flurry in havin one.....?

!!!! Everyone has got their inamorato ....it has been from a accessory state to necessity. It has been a trendy status quo. So everyone was in hurray choosing one, where they are craving to co-opt one in In and around the bounds. Not waiting much and finding ease in getting one........!; this  exempts many but in general......!!

????? Why we quarrel at our loved ones too........?

!!!!! We are born selfish nd i do accept that it helps in growing up great....but it also injects a shot of ego every now and den which builds up to a mammoth amount by d onset of youth. We fight ,argue, verbose yell to prove that we are right....but in this process of pettifog we win the moment but hurt the hurt and ours later........neva argue......wen ppl are one why to separate that by a Win....?..!

?????? If u are good does that mean that others are bad....? ,...in general ppl intention is to prove that others are bad  and so thats why they are good.

!!!!!! We always compare ourselves with others relatively in a small packed group to knoe whether we are good or bad.We iniatially prove them to be bad  making our path clear so as everyone is bad we are good. But we cant say that others are also good  and i am also.......we cant accept few ..!

??????? If you ever gonna kiss someone , then do you do making assured that hes gonna be ur man/lady for lifetime or you do because you like them.....?
!!!!!!! Actually as a kiss has nothing else than a blend of emotions and hormones.....so if we like the person...., felt him to be sensible enough then we do........but  its not lyk dat we take surity and..guarantee cards......!!

???????? If we encounter a person with the same qualities , habbits and and the same spices wouldn’t that turn us again....as we liked the same thing in our wooer before. So don’t we get attracted to dem den...?

!!!!!!!! hmm......here these kind of the persons are the reason many a times for many break ups and divocees......!!! they do attract unless we are staunch and drenched in our relationships....!!!

Finally one thing .........in all these cases we comfort ouselves  intentionally and compromise  to ease our hearts of these things but we are not inbuilt  that things are lyk this nd let dem happen..as the way they are........

LIVE LOVE LAUGH ...................!!!! 

చదివింది రాక.....వచ్చింది చదవకా ....

Sem  మొత్తం హాయి హాయిగా 
ఆట పాటల్లో మునిగి  తేలగా  
పరిక్ష ముందు రేయి మొత్తం 
జాం జాముగ  జాము  వరకు సాగగా 
పరిక్ష రోజున పొర్లుదండాలు పెట్టి 
హాలుకు పరుగులాడగా ......


చేతికొచ్చిన  పేపరు 
చిక్కువీడక 
తలలు పట్టుకున్నా 
తిక్క చూపులు తప్పక ........


చదివింది రాక.....వచ్చింది చదవకా ....
క్లాసు లో వినక కునుకు లో మునక......!


భవిష్య జీవితాన్ని  ఒక తెల్ల కాగితంలోని 
నల్ల సిరాతో కొలిచేవాడు 
నా రాతల్నే కాదు.....
నా తలరాతల్నీ ............మార్చేశాడు....!!!!       

అడవి కాచే వెన్నెల

అడవి కాచే వెన్నెల
నన్ను చేరు ఓ మారిలా
వెంట నడిచే నీడలా
నిత్యం తలచే ఓ కలా
నిలిచిపోవే నీ వలా
పంటపైరుల పసిడిలా
యదకు వీచే గాలిలా

ఓ మగువా మగువా నువ్విలా ........

వేచిఉన్న కెరటమా
పొంచి ఉన్న ప్రళయమా
అందమైన శిల్పమా
ఆవహించే విరహమా

ఓ మగువా మరి నీవెవరుమా ...?

నింగి నున్న  తారక
భువికి  చేరవే నీవిక
మదిని కాల్చుతూ మెరవక
అందించవే ఓ కానుక.....

ఓ మగువా నీ దయ చూపిక~~~~~నా దరికి నీవు చేరిక .....!!!

ఎ0తకాలమ్ ....ఎ0తకాలమ్ ....?

కడుపు కాలి
చలికి వణికి
 మోసపొయి ...మూగపొయి
దీనుడయ్యి ...హీనమయ్యి
ధగాకోరుల ధాత్రి లొ
ఉనికి వనికి
కుమిలిపొతూ.....
ఎ0తకాలమ్ ....ఎ0తకాలమ్ ....?

ఎ0డ మ0డె
గు0డె మ0డె
క0డ కరిగి~~~కడుపు మ0డె.....

ఆస్తుల0టె..........??
 పస్తుల0టివి.....!!!
అయినా నీపై
యావ చావని
ధగా  మోపుని
ఎ0త కాలమ్
మోస్తు పోతావ్  ....?
మాయ పోతావ్....? !

ఎ0తకాలమ్ .....ఎ0తకాలమ్......?

Why all this to women . . . ..?

 Why  all this to women..?

What   we   find  common in  great,popular,world famous paintings,poetry,dramas,songs..............

Yeah.......u gt it...”WOMEN”...!

So  spl about  women which woos  men.......!

Dis speciality rather being a boon been a curse to d womanhood.they are no longer --peccadilloes....!

women abusals,

molestations,

girl infanticides.....

this is  how  we  are showing our  love and  respect to  women  .

people say  dat  respecting women is thr in our  culture, but  the practice of  exploitation and  molestation of women has been thr since the onset of the so called “civilisation”.

Guys  here coming to d point........

U gotta knoe few statistics before getting into IT......

Let me  remind u  dat dis is  my  blog nd  not Ripley's believe It or Not...!

Somewhere in America a woman is battered, usually by her intimate partner, every 15 seconds. (UN Study On The Status of Women, Year 2000)

Somewhere in America, a woman is raped every 2 minutes. 683,00 rapes occur every year, which equals 56,916 per month; 1,871 per day, 78 per hour; and 1.3 per minute. 


according to a news report on BBC One presented in 12 November 2007, there were 85,000 women raped in the UK in the previous year, equating to about 230 cases every day.

South Africa reports the highest incidence of rape in the world. A woman is raped every 20 seconds; and only one in 35 reports it to the authorities.

Every 26 minutes a woman in India is molested. Every 34 minutes a woman is raped.

Sources:
U.S. Department of Justice, 1994.
AASRA ( Asian American support and resource agency.
Anna Diamantopoulou (European Commissioner for Employment and Social Affairs).

So..........after going though these statistics  onething u ppl might  release that  the issue  has  reached its alarming state pretty long before.

Nothing  is  in our  hands.....?.......! ! !

To be  frank even  nothing is their in the hands of the culprits.....!

Few reasons or the so called causes behind these molestations ,behind these salacious crimes  are due to the  carnal desires.

They may raise due to the bedizen costume of the women......

The mental stability of the mind of the youth........

The society impact as how it deals with such  crimes and the castigations over it;

This exacerbating of crimes of women molestation is just because of the nature’s law of attraction.internal hormonal reactions ..........estrogen , testosterone , release of oxytoxins.

But we can say that where the F***  their  ethics ,values go...?

.If a lion is hungry.......it kills a deer nd leave d left over...if its  again hungry it  kills  other  one  but   do not  come to  dis  bak.....!!!

So   why the F*** we are comparing our selves with animals......we got  brains...ryT....?

Yup...!  but  why shudnt we separate ourselves from animals.....if  few things  are being   common...!

We are civilised...developed....... R nt  V...? 

Okie....what do u  call as  development....? ; America is a developed country  than  india  ...ryt .. ? 

Den  chek  out  the statistics  above   one  again pz.....!!

Y   men   do   is   still a ~~~~CONUNDRUM..!

MEN are greater than WOMEN  in  strength.........so  this  happens....!

Every one thinks  bad ,but few are doing them and  became adversities to the other gendre,

Which is  getting us back to the earlyman...stature again....!

Where we are nt  Drooping in height but in characters......!

In this  post thrs  nothing to conclude......but just  to let you ppl  knoe  few  facts.......!!!

     

-Ram.

Live...&... Let live...!

LIFE is coool.......
Orkutting, parties,Punk..with a Junk,with last min preparations..and gossips wid gals...!!
IS  DIS  WAT  AM  UPTO...
is this what all i can proudly say about MYSELF
If so.........keep going.. ALL D BEST ..!
.........................coming to d  REST..!
You might come across small children Yelling to Sell to Kill their hunger of Hell.....ever noticed them....?
have u ever browsed sites lyk poverty.com...?? ( try out..!)
DO u knw hw many children(orphans)
Do u knw hw many girls are being abused in thr childhood.
Do u knw hw many childlabours r involved in ur day to day lyf..............! ?
dont ask me for ..Statistics...
BecausE
of not Lackng..but are ..ShocknG ...!
think about the society ,dis is OURS....!!!!!
Y dnt we put dis to action...?
we cnt end dis...but we can affect it..!
WE  ARE  SURE  TO  HELP..
BUT  NT  ASSURED  HW  TO..?
...SO  evry one jst think over dis..............

Live...nd Let  live,......means.......somewat  lyk...dis....
You need not......do evrything keeping ur personal work at bay.....
jus  keep thinking and  bothering....

One day  comes.....wen YOU can  do  something.........SOMETHING......somethinGG.....!!!!!

naa aase naa swasaga....!

వేచి వేచి

కనులు మూతపడగా.....
తలచి తలచి
మనసు మూగపోగా.....
నా ఆశే నా ధ్యాసగా
శ్వాసతో సాగగా.....
మనసైన ఓ మగువా....
నీ మౌనమును ఇక వీడవా .....?
చెంత చేరవా
వెంట సాగవా.....?
ఆశలు రాశులుగా
నీ ఊసులే ఎత్తగా .....
నిత్యం కొత్తగా
నీ మౌనమే ఒక రాగమై.....
నా జీవిత గీతమై...
నీ వలపుని తలపిస్తూ..
అటు శాసిస్తూ
ఇటు శపిస్తూ
మరి నాకెన్నడూ నీ ప్రాప్తిరస్తు.....? ? ? 

COMPETITION SANS QUALITY OF EDUCATION..!

"Competition sans quality of learning at all levels of education."


"Competition brings out the best in products and the worst in people" -David Sarnoff.
i seriously agree with this statement, as I have been experiencing and noticing this phenomenon. Competition can be defined as a state of situation where we start working for ourselves and end up in others court. A competitor always checks about others progress rather than keeping his experience as a keepsake. The real meaning of education in the words of J.K “There is no need to education. It is not that you read a book, pass an examination, and finish with education. The whole of life, from the moment you are born to the moment you die, is a process of learning.

Coming to the history or the reason for the origin of the competition, it has its roots early in the barter system itself where people started choosing the required necessities and priorities as said by Adam smith in his masterpiece ‘Wealth of nations’. From then People started looking at things pretty objectively. Education too became as a state of art which measures your quality of living. If we can notice at the time of renaissance period , The intellectual group of people who showed the world what life is and how to live it are no longer available and pity is that they have become extinct. The great painters( Pablo, Vango, Deigo),Musicians as (Mozart, Beethoven, Bach), and great thinkers and philosophers as(Plato , Socrates , Kant and Marx ) would not have been there if they also thought of the same kind as we are doing now. There is something called as joy and happiness in learning , and learning has to be relished rather being pressurised.

If one looks at the destination and has his eye over that ,then he cant see the path which he is following but just the destination simply. Even though one wish to make a qualitative study , the present scenario doesn’t allow that to happen. The present education system became so objective that it puts the normal logic and reasoning of the student at bay . Few students who are creative and smart have also became a prey to this kind of education system . By these kind of education patterns we are killing not only the science but also our future indirectly. The competition is making the people more machinery.

This kind of competition is making people to follow the system as goats, and who ever could not able to get into it are becoming a prey to it. The increase in the suicide rates in the adolescents is just simply because of the pressures they are being put up with a long time. It cracks them up and results in these. Not only the kids , this competition at jobs is making the society to crackle up. The various psychological problems , Life expectance Falling off are simply because of this “competition” .As love,joy,sorrows,cries, the competition has also became a part of the day to day emotions.
Finally one thing has to be kept in mind that we give examinations as we have learned something; but we don’t learn something to give any examination. Everyone wants the first position knowing it can be attained by only one person. If only one can win and many others loose, sometimes i used to feel that man shouldn’t have invented the state of winning something , so that NO PAIN NO GAIN. So if one wishes to have a qualitative analysis subjective knowledge , then this rudimentary system of quantitative evaluation should be wiped off. This makes the win to be universal , where everyone enjoys the joy of others....
Ram.