Defining 'DEAF' nitionsss

One question which I have been facing right from ma childhood till graduation  is

D

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For everything it seems it has got a definition.

So ppl got used to define things either by mugging up or copying it down from gr8 sources.

If the definitions and pre-defined views are exam constrained then there would not have been any problem with me or for me. But this has been incorporated into our Culture and trenD. People started looking at things keeping a certain pre-defined set of values and expectations in mind.

Certain examples or situations or encounters are :

1)    A  Trendy GUY shud  looook like…….long hair…….iF short with spikE ; a stuD ; hair colouring ; wrist bands ;  game for smoking and booznG ; with a low waist wid a international undie strap popping ouT.... and a tattoo on his Tri-ceP.

2)  A Trendy GAL  is  like having a  loose mstly straightened hair or a designer Curls…; tight T-shirt with a peeping Cleavage ; Capri or a skirt ; wooden or beaded bands nd chains ; with a stylish slang of american english and being intentionally struggling with her mother tongue , very very  easy with hugs , pets and drY kissesss….! :P

3) A  so-called ,  unique or rebellious or nihilist or a Vagabond or a  iconoclastic Guy decides himself or ppl expect him to be like  with full Attitude, don’t caring for health and so-called future and smoking ,boozing and seldom drugs with a typical look and dressing style sticking to a certain type of clothing and a semi-serious and pompous look on his face , often telling who cares and with a wry smile with followed by a Wink. :P

      

4.)    A relationship to others should look like its all Love and Fun to the couple. The guy  or gal should keep giving gifts to each other , saying love u and tooo…quite often , talking hours together on phone jus telling nothing but telling to “tell wat elszz ..? “ , bike rides , public display of  affection , beach dines , few pubs  and boasting about his gal/guy at others….:P

      

5.)     Few other relationships which r forming  as foam are the so-called Friendships…..telling “WHY CANT A GUY AND A GAL CANT BE JUSS FRIENDS …..? ? L ”  & hanging out here and there with a gang of friends to pubs and few dark places to fill few dark secrets…..( Drugs &; SEX )….and experiences in the name of safety .( kewl  trick   rYt… ? )

       

       6.)    Now getting back to a trendy youth section which is generally generalised   with their taste of music and reading…..wen it comes to Music people  come up telling  Justin Bieber, Nickel back, Evanescence, Meshuggah , infernal wrath , Eminem, black Sabbath , Nelly Furtado, Taylor swift, lady Gaga ,black eyed , RHCP , scorpions …………humming up one or two from these  always………and  wen it comes to reading it goes with Harry potter, twilight , Five point someone ,Agatha Christie or some Stardust or South scope magazine………... but never Literary classics , Non-fiction  and in music never classical music either Western or Hindustani or Carnatic….!

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This has become a trend  that people have gotta follow few norms and forms such these which are sited  a couple of lines above .These standardised pre-defined characteristics define or allow him to be in those respective zones and areas. There’s very less scope for

an individuality.

Though we find unique people …..again they all are Unique in the same way……L

Because of such situations many are faking their lives , living in an imaginary or adjusted veil with a fear that they be out of the League. We also Judge easily and put ppl in to the a particular set of people ( though we know 1000 Quotes about every one is Unique …:P )

Countries Got their Freedoms……….nOw it’s the turn of the PeoplE…….to  choose their lives as their own………..!

NEVER FAKE UR LIFE…………FORGETTING THAT 

afterall UR THE ORIGINALLL…………! J J J

BELIEFS ---LIES---LIVES

The material that gonna hit u in a little while is a Controversial material…..and is also Highly Irritating or Deviating….!
So people with weak minds or poor Thinkers are highly Restricted [R*]

Others get goinggggg……………muaahhh…..:P

How do you feel when someone hides the truth and projects a lie forward ?

How do you feel when you are considered as a soul of ignorance and don’t use ur mind in Living…?

Here I request you to use your mind in every part of your action and thought.

We generally believe in history and mythology as we cant get back in a time machine to check it out.

But wish we can put some reason to iT.

Generally everyone is aware of Bhagavad Gita  ,
Mahabharata  and  Ramayana.

Now the point is how we take these in our real life, most of the ppl( Hindu theists ) believe that these epics are True.

We guys study so deeper and thorough in finding the validity of simpler math statements and in finding the probability of a coin when we toss it…..without waiting for it to hit the ground (:P ),

why not  put a thought to this( our belief ).

Now going into few loop holes or delicacies (whatever you are comfortable to call it) of our ancient believes with  high expert and trusted texts ,

First  few doubts ( THOUGHTS) regarding Gita,

When Gita was being  preached by Krishna to Arjuna in the battle ground of Kurukshetra whose there as a steno typist  to take down all the notes of  a mammoth 18 chapter text in the din and bustle of war ?   ( THIS IS NOT ONLY WAT HIT MA MIND ALONE , BUT ALSO MENTIONED BY Mr VIVEKANANDA (swami) in his TEXTS.)

Getting into the validity of the texts of GITA…….,

Krishna to Arjuna in 10-37,

 “ Of the descendants of Vrishni ,I am Vasudeva and of the Pandavas, I am Arjuna.

Of the sages I am Vyasa and among great thinkers , I am Sukracharya (usana)

               

Vrsninam vasudevo smi

                Pandavanam dhananjayah

                Muninam apy aham vyasah

                Kavinam usana kavih. (10-37)

If he is Arjuna , he need not have spoken all the eighteen chapters of Bhagavad Gita. There would have been no need for the entire conversation. One more Thing is that the Lord he himself tells that he is Vyasa among the saints. ( VEDA VYASA WROTE MAHABHARATHA ).

In the 70^th sloka of the 18^th chapter ;

“I declare that he who reads this holy conversation of ours worships me by his intelligence .“

When krishna is telling all this to Arjuna , whom all he wants to read this ….and why ?

Coming to MAHABHARATHA ,

After taking a thorough account of texts of  Max Mueller,  Panini and Vyasa’s epic,

“Were the Pandavas, the sons of Pandu….?,

No .Because  of a curse, Pandu,the king was neither capable of co-habitating with Kunthi , his wife nor begetting children through her. The five Brothers of Pandavas were born to Kunthi either from demi-gods or from others. KARNA from Surya, ARJUNA from Indra. In such a case how can the sons of Kunthi claim a share from the sons of Dritharashtra….?

If one can note the treacherous, brutal , hypocritical and unfair means which are been followed by the protagonists of the Epic and how can still blindly praise Pandavas ( whether really existed or  not  is  secondary ).

How can one consider Mahabharata as a hindhu cultural conduct standard when ,

-          Draupadi has been shared by 5 men …..? (  still honoured as a Prathivrath )

-          Krishna with so many Lies and Raasaleelas as a idealistic Avatar ?

-          The killing of Bheeshma , Dronachaary , Karna  and Duryodhana all by unfair means.

-          Encouraging Casteism

   Basically as it was written by Vyasa , it has paved a path encouraging the supremacy and superiorty of the Brahmins and Kshatriyas. Later it was more publicised and propagated by the Sankaracharya.  

Now it’s the turn of Ramayana……….

Ramayana written by Valmikee. As there are lots of unhealthy strategies and issues in Mahabharatha, Ramayana was well written taking all into account making RAMA as a Male Symbol  & Sita as a pure and  pious Feminine.

Now as usual coming to the validity or the reality of the Ramayana….

-The ridiculousness of Ramayana is in observing that Ravana ruled over the Sri Lanka for over 50,00,000 years while the entire duration of ‘thretha yuga’ was 13 lakh years only  

                -In Ramayana one can find Rama referring to Buddha as a theif on many occasions. Periyar questions that how can Raman of thretha yuga can talk about buddah of 2500 years back.

In the process of more and more versions it has moulded and many regional issues are been incorporated , dampening the original Fictious version.

               

The epics are concoctions of the beliefs of the people. They are well linked chains of fantasies.

There might be lots of culture and heritage in them. I Honour that , but one cant be in a veil of belief that they  happened and are pious.

-We are living in a world which killed a great scholar for telling that world is not flat,

-We are living in a world which killed Gandhi for supporting muslims,

-We are in a world which culled thousands of people who are against their the general beliefs as by the aristocrats killing the protestants, Hindus killing Buddhists fearing they will be turning all Hindus in to them with their equal and rationalistic means.

-We are living in a world which can see 4 generations back and term the CAST…..but    not looking back 4 more generations where we all are one and the same….? ( our Origin ! )

 

Juss remember  ONE THING,

A SPIDER SHOUDNT BE STUK UP IN IN ITS OWN WEB.

So people enough of believing beliefs just as beliefs.

Believe some belief when you can think and defend yourself in believing that belief.

do comment.........:P

HAPPINESss.....!

HAPPINESS though a monosyllabic word is actually a word which needs to have a profound thought.

For many it’s a smile , a laugh or many laughs.

But i actually feel it is  ,

Ambiguous

Arguable

Chancy

Confusing

Conjectural

Cryptic

Enigmatic

Nebulous

Dubious

Indefinite

Puzzling

Erratic

Unreliable

Insecure

What is happiness Exactly....?

-Long ride at 100kmph....on a sea cost , hugging your guy from back whispering in his ear...?

-With friends in a big dark room, with randomising lights , music at it’s TOP, hitting the dance floor and having a couple of shots every now and then.

-looking into the eyes of your gal/guy and spending a hell lot of time as surfing facebook ( :P )

-Earning  a lot pots of money...?

- lots of name and fame...?

There are many individual majorities for the above elements, picking each one of them and they do be on  cloud 9.

BUT  IS THAT ALLL HAPPINESSss.......?

Is that why we all there on the planet Earth....?

Is that Why we have words like :

Unique

Rare

Special

Notable

Peculiar

Different

Idiosyncratic

Interesting.....?

Though hw verbose i be , the main motto is just to stree upon “Quality of happiness “

We do say that i had a great time with friends.

We do say that ,”that day was the most memorable day of my life ( very often :P )”

Have you ever noticed the amount of happiness you gain or feel when you

-          Help some one in trouble

-          Help an elderly woman in carrying her luggage .?

-          Buying some fud and giving it to a beggar whom you pass by daily.

-          Giving clothes (let them new or old ) to some poor (pure ) needy children of the streets.

-          Helping mom in cooking or house keeping nt nly when she is ill but also  nrmlly by self.

-          Curving up a smile in face of a crying pal.

Just try various kinds of happiness .........

Dnt let happiness be a pre-defined emotion which has to do with some shopping malls ,pubs or some gaming zone mania.

Bernard Shaw says ,” Knowledge breeds Taste ......Taste kills Pleasure”

When we knew many things ...then the petty issues do nt matter us .

Few small things we cannot even notice to relish.

A baby’s smile ,Wet soil fragrance , coffee in Rain , Watching sunset ,kissing in moonlight (both ourselves while d same , shadows).

Well, here i am not defining Happiness for You, but just telling few so you can try .......

Just give a try..........

Let it b a F**Kng  try.....but    jus   give a god damn trYyy...!

-          Read some classic literature sipping hot steamy black coffee.....

-          Reading some Poetry or some Philosophical non-fiction munching some Belgian Dark chocolate.

-          Watching the sky of stars ,sleeping on the lap of your guy/gal  playing with her/his hair.......

-          All alone in a room with some natural aroma and listening to some

Mozart’s symphony 40 , eine kleine nachtmusik or Beethoven’s symphony 9 .

Or

Pandit Jasraj’s Kajra re naina

Or

M.S.Subbalakshmi’s Raga alapanas....

-For one day don’t  EAT anything ....n  stay empty .....n   nw think about few general social problems which you used to ignore in your so-called day to day rush. The bile juice of ur tummy gets caustic melting your heart fuelling your sensibility levels.

- Try being cultural or ethnic for a day of your week  ( eat quite Indian food.....wear khadi....talk just in your mother tongue (mstly) ....try doing some pottery,carpentry,painting or atloeast  some writing by thinking.

I do agree that Happiness is SATISFACTION.

For example,

“X” is reading Marx’s Das Capital .....sipping hot Green tea.....lying in a wooden Swing...wearing a fad of fab india.

“Y” gaming with the sound effects on their peak.....playing Hot Pursuit(NFS).....swigging Budweiser...with a sheesha to side ....!

“Z” always lov to sleep,so as usual lying on his bed though it is 12.30 in the so-called morning...!

In any of the above , yes my clients do hav and relish happiness......

Every one’s happiness is diff and they needn’t be compared .....

But still.......try something in everything........!

Stick to happiness....nt to the modes of it.

Y did Gauthama Buddha left all his luxuries and went on to preach buddism begging home to home..?

Y cant Mr.Gandhi hav fun hanging out with hot London chicks.......rather coming all the way back to India to take part in Freedom Movement...?

Finally few finishing CRAP......

When you are HungrY..........Everything seems to be Yummy & Tasty...!

When you knw what exactly is to be in DARK......then only you come to knw d imp. Of LIGHT..!

When you know the real Suffering .....You can define real HAPPINESS...!

-RaM.

                                   

                                   ......THANK YOU....