A months baby can realise that her mom is angry jus by her expressions……..i am 21 now……so……u can obviously expect few lines from dis age. Everyone has got their own experiences and analysis of people and situations and the way of tackling them. Everyone has got a feeling that they are right and special and living differently than others.
I am here penning this mosaic of ink, having a similar or lil familiar feeling as of the above lines.
I am living in a country where the bank interest for Educational loan is more than that of the car loan. As per few statistics it seems that India is having more money in the Swiss banks than any other country which makes India the richest of the world. Who said India is not a developed country……?. India is a country which is developed in an improper way. With its mammoth population and the problems it is facing like poverty, corruption, rural awareness and the company of greedy politicians daunting any active socialist. But what I can tell proudly about India is that the safety and the freedom of living.
When compared to most of the developed countries like the United states , Russia , China and Saudi …Indian safety standards for women and the crime rate is pretty less. A favourable climate , a concoction of various cultures and traditions all living under the same roof is a ultimate luxury. I am loving it.
One thing which has been inevitable from my childhood is the education. I seriously hate the education system of India. I accept that competition brings best of anything but the overall quality is getting down and down day by day. People have to realise the fact that 1st position is one which can be achieved by one alone. In India the one who made it in engineering is opting management and getting into some MNC just for the reason being paid heavily.
In India education has been seen as a top notch field to earn money. I accept it earns a gud amount of money but shouldn’t be for the money alone. Gone those days where people used to choose professions where their passions drive them. Now it’s the parents who take a lion’s share of the choice making [ No Bommarillu Dads plzzz…….:P ]
Imagine these situations….. :
U are coming from a goo restaurant where the fud is quite expensive ( 2000 for 2 ) and u ordered more than what u can have and left it on the tables not even eating half of them…and finally ended up playing with it throwing the meat balls from one plate to other.
U came out of the restaurant on ur way home found a pauper in rags shivering for the cold night and searching the street side dustbin for any leftovers chasing the dogs away.
When a street child snatches a chocolate bar from ur hand and runs, We obviously scold him. I am not telling that we shudnt do that, but our sensibility levels should realise that at that moment the chocolate is our accessory, a dessert , an add-on but to that street lad that’s the main course , that’s that day’s staple diet…..:(.
When we travel in local trams we get a seat which is our luck or attentiveness which makes us to grab one immediately. But wen we find any lady ( above our age only :P ) or an old man or a couple holding a child , we can give offer our seat to them with out any expectations of all the crowd cheering our sensible nature :P. I realised these petty things actually give you more happiness than pressing ur butt hard on a seat like that.
Anger is not dangerous. u can be angry, but have u ever realised that most of the time we get anger upon our close ones. Mom, dad and friends …etc. so we trouble them with our words and also repent later for telling few harsh one we don’t mean them. You need not be popular like Buddha or Gandhi being very sublime and following ahimsa, but can be a happy man.
Always have something in mind that what I gain from this. This particular instinct doesn’t make you selfish but makes you to utilise your time more effectively. Yes I do agree gossips with friends , daily hang outs to CCDs, boozing and dancing on the floors gets u enuf happiness, but have u ever realised for how long that happiness is being effective…or useful.
HAVE YOU EVER THOUGHT THAT HAPPINESS CAN ALSO BE USEFUL……..?
Increase ur intellectual levels………increase ur understanding abilities and an open wide outlook on the society. Try accepting things as they are without judging out at first sight.
Boys generally get a impression wen a gal is going in tight outfit with a trendy luk , dat she is easy to get . when she deny them , then they come up saying she is a slut man , my goodness I din make it with her…!
Gals generally ( exceptions are always there so plss……..sushhhh…! ) get boys around them and make friendship in order to fulfil few deeds. They get dependent , ask him to do dis for them with a lovely tone . the relation or relations runs quite gud as long as they are at same place and goes off ones the distance increases…!
Realisations need not come out when they happen to us……they can be realised from other peoples incidents.
After all these 21 years I jus left with few resolutions………
Not for becoming great but to sustains my happiness……
A platter of Humour , wit , sensibility and a small do-good nature
Anger ,jealous, selfishness as jus Spices to the dish of ma life …!
I also realised that now I am 21 ………I am now eligible for both MASTERS AND MARRIAGE….:P.
-Ram.
