~~~~~RELAT 'I' ONSHIPS~~~~~~

                   FOR MANY …THIS MAY SOUND LIKE A CRAP……!

FOR FEW THIS MAY BRING YOU A 

NAP…...zzzzzz.!

still there is no end to my insanitY...!

In nature its obvious that we do have feelings and sexually get attracted to  the opposite gender.so nothing wrong in being  allured ,but how you are taking care of those attractions matters.

Flirting…loving….lust….extra martial affairs.....few unnamed  ……etc .sometimes these attractions lose their values and cross the bounds….ending up at women molestations.

Girls please don’t demand for your rights in roaming here and there, unless you are equipped with the strengths or techniques enough to safe yourselves on your hangouts. The physical beauty and weakness makes you people to be vulnerable for these beastly acts. One more point to mention is that gals can’t be captious about guys alone. The bedizen dressing not only catches their looks but also be a bait to their hooks. Guys ,involving in such crimes doesn’t hav any proper family relationships or sensibilities. Living in our current day society has become like going in rain without getting wet…….( nt kidding ).    

The united states of America is having women insecurity levels 8 times less than that of ours.so nothing wrong with the nation and to be frank nothing wrong with the people too……blame  Nature..! [:P].

  LOVE

Love is the only relationship which is a concoct of a varied feelings like Joy, Smile, Amae ( japanese word for satisfaction), headache, pestering, Ego and Jealousy .

Starting with JOY……one will be more happy and excited before proposing…..he/she will b thr at their disposal .Once if the other accepts their love then the joyous alacrity reaches cloud 9.Slowly enthusiasm fades out……but love remains. Craving for happiness is found later as mutual expectations are to be satisfied( THERE R EXCEPTIONS…….FEEL FREE TO PUT URSELF IN DAT ZONE comfortably ).

LOVE is an unknown feeling which veils up all other known feelings…!

Now as usually turning for the other side of the coin…….

WHEN WE LOVE SCOTCH WE LOVE TO HAVE IT ANYTIME……

ADDICTIONS ARE ALWAYS DESIRABLE INITIALLY BUT EARN TROUBLES LATER.!

LOVE IS A GREAT ADDICTION..!  

WE KNOE ,BUT STILL WE REFUSE TO ACCEPT IT..!

Few generalised complaints ……………(in active voice )

? 1. Always why it’s me calling you and why don’t YoU…?

I feel : If u r seriously in Love and you wanna talk…..why who calles whom matters to U..?                You wanna talk you call…….who knws may be the one on the other side can be waitng for ur call….or always thinking about urself…or….she/he doesn’t feel like calling u up…..let it be  NythinG…..if u wanna tak  call….!

?2. why your mobile always gives me a busy tone….wid whom r u talking….? ?

I feel : Y are u insecure…? ...if  your  love is so weak it  will be gone…..nd  loves of such kind are easily gets into oblivion. She can talk wid any of her friends……….and  dat can  be  about  You….who knws…?

Or even if  someone is also calling her up at d same tym even that fetches u a busy tone…dat myt also be a reason…….soo………chill Out !

?3.I ask you to do so many things but u never come up with any……y  don’t  u  love  me  properly…?

I feel : she might be a passive one…! Love is cnt  be materialistically measured. There might be a problem with ur  expectation levels….:P

?4.why you want to know evrythng about me….y don’t you give me my space..?

I feel : because she /he wants to knoe evrythng about u…….anythng abt u  interests her/him….!

If u don’t have anything to hide nd u r fair in urt relation then y it trouble u to  reveal urself…?

Its nt she/he pestering u ….its u  whose getting  irritated in order to escape …frm the time…!

?5.Why you cant come out with me….?  Y is it  like on this god damn(sry if blasphemy…:P ) earth

Its nly u keep busy  with ur relatives…..y cnt u spare sometime for me..?

I feel : who knws she  myt b really been busy……nd  she myt b that only rare one on this so called god damn earth to be always busy wid relatives..!

Why you go comparing with other people’s relationships  &  to imitate them ?

BuT  in LOVE  its obvious that ppl do really wanna spend time  together…………who knws what kind of pleasure one gets in looking into their loved eyes holding hands seated opposite ( few giggles…few goose bumps) ....few gt to experienced..! …..:P

LOVE  is to make lives more happy .

Keep loving till u sustain the feel and happiness…let LOVE nt be a burden because of the person whom u love or used to love..!

In tym travelling  u met him/her  first so u chose dem. If, in later days u find d same kind of person with those same habits , thoughts, fun and relationship values…or better than him then why don’t one loves dem too…?

What all u liked in someone…are there before u in other form……can also be more polished.

Having an internal craving and suppressing dat inward any satisfy your heart telling it some lame reason to skip him…?

LOVE  should  Bind u to be IN a Bond……..….nt a BOND shud BinD  LOVE in IT..!

LOVE has gt few responsibilities which are to be followed seriously……

TRUST

SHARING

ACCOUNTABILITY

 & ENTERTAINING …!

Initially one gotta question themselves whether they r quipped whid d following………its nt lyk u cant  LOVE……..but  U  cnt  make it a Proper one.!

Troubles, problems, quarrels and misunderstandings do come in love . When you got hurt by d others shouting its because u hurt dem before frm nt dng smthng expected so it exploded this way..!

( there are few psychos and maniacs……they r a great exceptions here :P ).

Quarrels do occur in order to sustain the happiness and to curb out the  misunderstandings…….

Voice  doesn’t  matter …at dat tym…take  the sense of those words..!

We Yell to Kill our Anger helL.!

“Because of u nly I got dis  anger…so I am sharing it wid u………Who elsz is  thr  for me….”

 It’s Not necessary to have a boyfriend or a girlfriend ……….but  dnt make it an Accessory  in jus having a relationship jus for sake of having one..!

If u cant control ur own life  then u have not gt any rights to control the lives of others in d veil of LOVE..!